6 months of the Beacon (A look back).


For the last 7 months, we’ve covered a lot of ground in this newsletter.

We’ve talked about everything from the orange rug disaster and one-handed showers to the mental adrenaline drop and the mystery of Stage 2 complications.

If you’ve been reading along, you’ve realized one thing: Information isn’t the problem. You can find supply lists and surgery photos all over the internet.

The problem is Structure. Most people prepare for phalloplasty like it's a one-day event, but it's actually a multi-year journey. They piece it together in real-time, searching symptoms at midnight and ordering supplies after they already need them.

I want to help you change that. I’ve been working on a way to turn all this information into a repeatable, calm roadmap.

For next week's Beacon, I have something special coming for those of you who are tired of just "winging it."

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Stay Steady,

Brett Lighthouse Transitions

P.S. If you’re tired of trying to figure out these daily details on your own, I’m building a full system specifically for you. Deep Water: The Phalloplasty Recovery System launches September 2nd. It’s designed to give you a clear plan for every stage of the process so you can focus on healing.

​[Click here to join the Deep Water Waitlist]​

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