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You survived your final phalloplasty surgery but now you’re itching to get back to normal life. You need to pace yourself during this recovery. You will likely have the energy to do more things than you should be doing. Let’s go over when it’s safe to resume normal activities. Please remember this is only a general guide. This is not a replacement for specific instructions given to you by your surgeon. Household Chores: You will need help for the first week or 2 with general cleaning. I was...
Waking up after surgery with new hardware in your body can bring some unfamiliar sensations. Here is what to expect: Your penis will be semi-pumped up after surgery. It will feel hard, which is so euphoric! It will most likely be a little sensitive, especially while milking. Your scrotum will be very swollen initially. Making it feel hard. This is temporary. As the swelling goes down, it will soften up. You will most likely be able to feel both the cylinder in your penis and the pump in your...
A lot of people are nervous about how to use their erection device. You think, “What if I can’t get it deflated?” “What if I can’t inflated it during intimacy?” My best piece of advice is to practice! AND don’t leave your surgeons office without doing a test run. You need to be sure that you can operate the device on your own. Do not let the surgeon make you feel rushed. Here are some helpful tips on how to operate the pump erection device. Hold the pump bulb steady with your non-dominant...