The "Buried" Secret: How sensation shifts after Stage 2.


In Stage 1, intimacy is a lot of "wait and see." But Stage 2 brings a massive shift, especially if your natal anatomy was buried.

What if your penis and your natal anatomy finally started talking to each other?

When the surgeon buries your natal anatomy at the base of your penis, something incredible happens. Stimulating your penis now stimulates your natal anatomy, too. For many of us, this can be very affirming.

The Tactical Technique:

Since your penis is still flaccid (no ED yet), it can be hard to "grab." Try laying your penis up towards your belly and rubbing your fingers up and down. This "tugs" on the buried nerves at the base. Play with the angles: left, right, and straight up. Your body is learning a new body part. Give it time to adjust.

Sensation is a marathon, not a sprint. Every nerve zing is a sign of progress.

Stay Steady,

Brett Lighthouse Transitions

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