The Heavy Bag vs. The Valve: A Catheter Secret.

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read

If there’s one thing that defines Stage 2, it’s the SP catheter. Most surgeons send you home with a heavy bag and long tubing. It’s heavy, it’s awkward, and if you drop it, it pulls.

But there is a better way.

Ask your team about the Flip-Flow Valve. It replaces the bag and long tubing entirely. It’s a small valve attached directly to the catheter that you open and close to empty your bladder every 2–3 hours.

• The Pro: Total freedom of movement. No heavy bag to carry around.

• The Reality: You have to set an alarm so you don't forget to empty your bladder! You’ll also feel a "suction" sensation when it’s empty. It’s weird, but normal.

You are the manager of your own recovery. Don't be afraid to ask for things that make your life easier.

Stay Steady,

Brett Lighthouse Transitions

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