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Glans, Scrotum, and Vaginectomy: Where the discomfort really sits.

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Let's do a reality check on Stage 2 pain. Some people actually find Stage 2 more painful than Stage 1.

  • The Glans: Usually numb or just "sensitive" at first. The discomfort usually kicks in during those first few bandage changes at home.
  • The Scrotum: Expect significant soreness here, sometimes one side will be more sore. Walking will feel like a "waddle" for a while.
  • The Vaginectomy Site: This is often the most painful part initially. It’s a deep, internal soreness that makes sitting upright nearly impossible for the first few weeks.

Just like Stage 1, Tylenol is your best friend. Stay consistent so you don't have to chase the pain once it flares up.

Knowing which areas will be tender helps you move with more confidence and less fear.

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Stay Steady,

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